I believe single women should capitalize off the mere fact that there is power in the “P”!!! Hold off on jumping in the sack with a guy who you just met, date for real, get to the know who he really is because in the beginning we really are meeting their “representative “.

Keep your POWER!!! Hold on to your power as long as you can because it will SHOW you what they’re really about! If he just wants the “P” or if he is really interested in YOU as a person, someone he can build with and possibly wife up. Make him work for the “P”. The pussy, the position of being your man, the positive energy you give, the push you give him as a queen building her king up, the price you’re paying to sacrifice your peace and serenity of being alone. All of that and then some! Bruce’s when you know what you bring to the table there is no doubt in your mind that YOU are the catch, the prize and the QUEEN who God has created you to be!!!! Hands down!

And if he gets aggravated because you’re keeping your “P”, pressures you for the “P”, leaves when he can’t have his way or tries to gaslight or manipulate you…babygirl RUN! Run as fast as you can! That was not “him”. It was a counterfeit! Now, start prepping even the more for the real deal. Because once you eliminate the counterfeits; here comes Mr. King 👑,

God has not forgotten about you but, sometimes we can forget who He has called us to be and that we are indeed the one who holds the power when it comes to dating, relationships and marriage! Do not settle! It’s not worth it. No matter how long or wrong you’ve been dating. Tap into the power of YOU and know that your King is coming boo! He is.

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I love y’all! Peace , Love and Power!

For so long you’ve yearned to just be you. Hoping to not offend anyone who thinks so highly of you. You’ve prayed and asked God; what must you do? What are the instructions to just be you?!

Day and night you fight demons within. Binding and loosing while that broken heart is trying to mend. Pain, hurt, tears and sorrow; praying for a better day tomorrow.

No one knows what is really on your mind, the only thing they care for is that you bring what’s on the list and be on time. You fake that smile, put on your Sunday’s best while all along trying to pass their test.

Then one day you wake up as it looks like the world is about to end….you get a message from heaven that the weapons didn’t break you and that it only made you bend. That God is preparing a table just for you, making your enemies your footstool and restoring back unto you. There is some joy that was stolen; God has given it back. Your childhood memories erased and a new chance to do it all over again. Faith and hope and love with some high self esteem as God shines down on you. Giving you beauty for ashes and a renewed mind. These are the parts of you that people crushed but God rebuilt. So that pain you felt for all those years, and the nights you cried all those tears are NOW crushed as an olive and turned into oil…..your anointing cost you some stuff. It’s priceless. It’s rare. It’s God. It’s YOURS.

Just Be YOU. And be unapologetically YOU in every essence of your being! The world needs you! We have been awaiting for the birthing, the transformation and the transition of YOU!!!!! Now go on girl and do your thang!!!! Sing that song like only you can sang!!!!! Smile so big and shine so bright; that when you walk in the room; you automatically own the night.

JUST BE YOU!!!!

Coronavirus has caused a major stop in the nation and the world as we once knew it. But it has also caused people to look in the mirror , reflect,shift and produce major changes that are necessary but never would have happened had not the world stopped.

Use this time to find YOU. This staycation although man day for health and safety precautions can really bring out the beast and best in you. Unlock every gift you have, step up on your platform and say it from your gut; YOU BELONG HERE

Your story was already written for you to be GREAT! Heaven is rooting for you and hell cant stop you!!!! You were born to be extraordinary and beautiful. Be that; unapologetically.

This staycation is actually a blessing.

Love & kisses

@thatgirlkizzy

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I woke up today feeling pretty ok & blessed to be alive. I can walk, talk, breath, dress myself and feed myself. I’m not living under a bridge in the cold although things can be better. I’m not hungry although I have no kitchen. I’m not naked even though my clothes are everywhere. I’m STILL blessed because I am taking time to love all the pretty little things about me and around me. I’ve learned to step back and learn me so that I can love me properly and appreciate all of me.

I met a woman yesterday and she looked at me and said “omg, you are gorgeous.” And I simply replied “thank you”. That was a pretty little moment and I can appreciate that. Black women uplifting black women. Genuinely.

I met a Christian woman yesterday and she prayed for me. It brought tears to my eyes bc she was sent by God as well and in that moment I was having a really emotional moment. I released through tears and I can appreciate that pretty little moment.

God always know what we need and when we need it. He knows exactly how to minister to us in a time when all hell is breaking loose. He brings us peace. He brings us clarity. He gives us reassurance that He is with us always.

And I can definitely appreciate all of Gods pretty little blessings bestowed upon me.

❤️

Sometimes as women; we have bad hair days, we don’t always like making our brows perfect, wearing that cute lippy or putting on the cutest outfit. We are taught to be at our best even when we don’t feel like it. Life happens, kids come, husbands leave, then there’s bills and honestly; when do we have time to have “me time?”

Feeling pretty must start within. Your heart must feel pure, genuine, open, light and free. How do you achieve it and is it really possible?

The past had to be simply forgotten. Let it go. Move forward. Have a select memory and let it be positive things to project positive thoughts to manifest a positive life.

THIS is the first step in healing. And you deserve it. You deserve to be pretty from the inside out. Give it to yourself. No longer are awaiting on a knight in shining armor, to hit the lotto or seeking the validation from peers.

We are feeling pretty freaking awesome as of today!!!! We are writing the books, starting the blogs, starting the business, healing, getting therapy and no longer giving two f$&ks about what “they” think.

Sister girl; be free! Be you! Be amazing! Be a leader! Shine! And most of all Be Pretty!